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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I believe in, the vows of "in sickness and in health". 
Ultimately it's your life and how you choose to deal with a dying spouse. But lets not fool ourself by calling it a gray area. Instead it's being a weasel.[/quote]

My vows did not say change your diaper.

Nor does my H want me to do that. It actually is something a trained professional should do.

If I hurt myself trying to move him from chair to bed my grandchildren will lose 2 grandparents.

You are the selfish one that you can’t let you spouse live with dignity while you are sick.[/quote]

A "trained professional" that earns $12 an hour and takes a 4 week course. Get the F# out of here. These trained professionals hurt their backs all the time trying to move other people's loved ones.

It's one thing to argue that it is a lot of work, and it is reasonable to outsource a lot of it. It's another to argue that you cannot clean the butt of the person you love, but others can. What kind of love is that?[/quote]

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