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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP cheated with her husband on his first wife.  OP was cheated on by her husband and new wife.  Now she's mad.[/quote]

She is not mad. She is worried about her child's well-being. At a week-day night reception, after daughter's bedtime, where she doesn't know MIL#4 who will be supposed to watch DD while MIL#4 will more than likely prefer... you know, being at the reception and celebrating her daughter's wedding. But I guess a 3 year old who toddles off and drowns in the garden pond or just walks off because nobody really wants to be responsible for her is not a big deal, as long as the wedding pictures have been taken earlier and PP has bent over backwards for xH's requests.

Goodness, I was 5 when my father remarried and he actually made sure that the wedding was suitable for a 5 year old... Friday afternoon/evening wedding, I was invited to the ceremony as well as the reception, he invited a friend of mine so I wasn't alone and then friend's parents picked us up after dinner and I spent the night with them. There are options how to include young children into weddings. What PP's xH has organised it not one.[/quote]

OP could have asked to stay or speak with grandma to make sure she was ok watching the child.  Or, send a babysitter if they have one.[/quote]

You do realize grandma was really the new bride’s mom and had never met the child before. I can just imagine HER post on DCUM:

I couldn’t even enjoy my own DD’s wedding day because my new son in law’s crazy ex wanted to speak with me. I don’t know why she thought I should watch the child. I’ll do plenty of babysitting in about 8 months when the new baby arrives.
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