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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you ever texted her or hung out with her without mutual friend being involved?[/quote]

The ones about her house and moving were just to her, yes. [/quote]

So just those?  Sounds like she's probably just never been a huge fan of yours.  Can manage it fine in the setting with mutual friend, but have no desire to be an actual friend.  It's ok,.it happens. Doesn't mean either of you did something or is wrong, your personalities just don't fit together.  The text was a bit rude and direct, but if she's already kind of annoyed by you, it probably came through in texting you.  [/quote]

I think she felt like she had to be direct to cut OP off.  Personally, I would not have texted again after she ignored the last two texts.  She clearly does not like you OP.  And then your friend not refuting your suggestion of that really drives that home 100%.  Sorry.  I'm sure it stings but try not to take it too personally.  [/quote]

In fact, try not to take it personally at ALL. This may very well be about her and not about you. I went through years of depression when my kids were playdate-age, and I know I either ignored or responded tersely to texts from several people who wanted to get together with either me or my kids. They probably thought I hated them, but it would be closer to the truth to say I hated my life at the time.

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