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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, this is you shortly after your divorce

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/788867.page

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OP here: Absolutely not. I have a moving on problem. I was never in love with my spouse. I was in love twice before and the second one broke me. I did not fall in love again and should never have married. I will not fall in love and will never want to introduce anyone to my family. Done with all of that. [/quote]

What you didn't get about the link -- that other OP [i]thought[/i] she was "done with all that" and had an FWB relationship, but eventually she caught feelz for the guy. You're currently deluded that you won't catch feelz. But you will.[/quote]

She may, she may not. Like your marriage may or may not. Like we all may or may not wake up tomorrow.

I agree. So for today she’s making the choice she is with the information at hand, and if things change, she will adapt.

This isn’t high level stuff folks the way some of you are agog about this is fascinating to me. Do you really think there’s only one way to “do” relationships?

My marriage was undone by a mentally ill and abusive man (head injuries- TBI) - please don’t have so little empathy as to not try to understand why I want to protect my kids from other men while enjoying sex and adult time. Or if you can’t,  do it on a thread for married people. [/quote]

Yes I can see why you would want to protect your children from other men suffering from Traumatic Brain Injury which causes them to be mentally ill and abusive.

However, I don't really understand why you would specifically restrict yourself to dating such men.

But there's no accounting for taste, is there?[/quote]

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