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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yet another horror story...

Marriage is a raw deal for men[/quote]

The horror story is divorce for kids.

The men and women are adults.

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This is the new Coparenting divorce hell of the last decade. Hell for everyone, can't even move for a better job, kids shuttling everywhere, one parent running all the logistics. Such a mess, you'd think people would work on their marriages if there were problems, not sign up for 15+ years of this. Or just have an open marriage. Seriously. [/quote]

I'm not sure who revived this but this part is so true, The idea that people need to have 50/50 custody is BS. The parent who was doing all the parenting before should have a right to keep the kids, and the other parent should have access to them. But a divorce is such a nasty way to lose money, fight about where you live, what jobs you take, what you do, etc. I'm divorced and I have more contact and more drama with my ex now than we ever had as married. And in the end, the main victim here is the child. Because unless both parties are mature and have the money, the child will be fkd. [/quote]

Agree. Just be roommates and have an open marriage if one or both need to.

50/50 is in vogue in the courts systems but totally senseless in many fronts.

And yes, remarriages, big job relocations all trigger more court mediation to work out full custody and vacation arrangements. Lawyers must really laugh how many round trips these agreements take on.[/quote]

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