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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean 'this is about her and not the kids'?

Is new guy good to kids?

If he is, let her move providing you/they can afford flights or travel. This is life. Is she a good mom?

I knew a dick dad who refused and so he got custody until the kids were 12 and then they moved to moms province and barely spoke to him again. They were 6 & 9 when it happened.[/quote]

OP is there father and sounds like he loves his kids.

Mom's boy toy has character strikes against him.

Anyone who becomes an affair partner to a married person with kids is an ass who does not deserve respect or understanding.[/quote]

Sadly the kids will likely have bad feelings toward her as more and more come out. And they become older.

I would lawyer up, prevent her from leaving. Doubt I would talk to her beyond the text for child exchanges. And make sure my agreement states the kids are not to be alone with this guy. My friend was able to get that in her child custody agreement. Poor kids![/quote]

I am sorry, this is crazy. A judge will throw that provision out in a hot minute. I know this from experience. I am married to a man who left his wife and eight years later, she is still bitter. Once we were engaged and living together, the judge basically told her she can not continue to enforce this provision, and even went so far to grant him 50/50, because that is what is in the best interest of the child. No, he didn't cheat on his wife with me or period, she was just an awful human being. He met me three years after their divorce. He is a great dad and very involved in his kids lives. She would rather punish her kids because she is petty. It's really sad to watch.

And before anyone asks --- they call me bonus mom and are always happy to see us every other week.[/quote]

What's crazy? A judge can prevent her from moving far away with the kids. If she's not married to the AP a judge can order he's not to care for the kids unless she's present.

No one said he should punish his kids. He doesn't want the mother to move with them.[/quote]

Sorry, to be clear, what is crazy is thinking you can tell your ex that their new wife/husband can't be left alone with the kids. No judge will ever allow that, unless they are a danger, of course. I agree with the moving them away though. That is not in the best interest for the children.[/quote]

No, I mean't while in the dating stage. I agree after they are married a judge wouldn't order that. My friend was able to get it in her divorce because he was having different women around the kids. They weren't allowed to be alone with them. [/quote]

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