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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is one loooong thread...
Can I just say that if my teenaged child and I suffered a horrible loss of her father/my husband, and I remarried and became a step-mom, I would do everything possible to make my daughter feel like she didn’t lose her only surviving parent in the process. Doesn’t matter how old my child is, or if she’s married with kids...I guarantee the step-dad’s kids and grandkids will get so much more than OP.. Shame on the step dad for not being more inclusive, and shame on your mom for neglecting you.[/quote]

I'm sure you're the same crazy bird who keeps posting the same post over and over again, ranting shame and horrible towards people you've never met and know nothing about.  :roll:

I'm a grown up. I don't need or want to get expensive gifts because I'm financially independent and can treat myself thank you very much. I'd have no problems with younger siblings still in college or their early 20s getting new laptops or expensive clothes. They need it more than I do. We're well off and $75 is perfectly fine as a gift for an adult who can fend for herself.

[b]If my father died and my mother remarried, [/b]that's great for her and I'd hope to have a good relationship with him but he would never ever become a substitute for my father nor would he be anything more than my mother's husband. As an adult I don't need a stepdad. And I wouldn't be bothered if he spent more money on gifts for his own children than on me. Especially children that are a lot younger than me and in a different place in life than I am.

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So you don't know what you are talking about.

Several posters have mentioned that this is about her dad dying and her losing her mom to a different family.

Because, you know, many of us have lost parents, either through death or divorce, and we can see clearly what your smugness and lack of life perspective prevents you from seeing.[/quote]

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