Reply to Stepdaughter wants to move in full time

Forum Index » Parenting -- Special Concerns

Reply to "Stepdaughter wants to move in full time"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All four people need to meet and discuss this together. Why are people shitting on the OP when it's the new stepdad who is also the problem?[/quote]

Because OPs daughter is not asking to live with stepdad.  She is asking to live with her real dad and his wife.[/quote]

Yes, but the OP's daughter can't just willy nilly choose a parent without a valid reason. [/quote]

Sure she can.

They are her parents.

Their only response should be "Yes, of course. We would love to have you."[/quote]

This is why we have an issue with entitled children with no coping skills to manage any type of discomfort.  If the child is being abused, then she should be removed from her mother's home.  However, there does not appear to be any direct evidence of that according to OP.  Many of you act as though you have never interacted with teenagers before.  The parents all need to sit down and talk, find a good therapist, and work it out.  Why would you want to teach your children that they never have to deal with any type of adversity or conflict?  You are setting them up to be incapable adults.  [/quote]

Because a child of divorce should not be made to feel like an unwelcomed burden in both of her parents' homes, just because the step parent doesn't want them.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics