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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's home for all but 8 hours per week, while his wife works 60+ hours.  He contributes to chores and spends time with his kids.

If he was a woman you all would be yelling for him to divorce, and request child support.

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OP here. It's never really "just" about time spent at home or at the office... and it's not about that with us either. [/quote]

Of course it's not solely about working hours, but they are contributing to your lack of emotional and physical intimacy.  Your wife works too much.  She does not have enough time or energy to put into your relationship because she likely prioritizes her free time with the kids, and helping with daily household and self care.  You are last.  That's how it is for some women.  It's not that she doesn't love you, it's just that she doesn't prioritize you because you are a capable adult.  It sucks, but it's true.  Now you have to decide to wait it out until 1) kids are grown then divorce, 2) she makes your relationship a priority, 3) divorce now, or 4) you discuss an open relationship.  Only you and your wife can decide which road to take, and none of those roads are inherently wrong.  You may want #2, but she may enjoy life as it is now, that leaves the ball in your court for 1, 3 & 4.[/quote]

If she were actually attracted to her husband, he would not be "last" he would be "first". When women [i]actually want [/i]to have sex, they find a way, no matter how busy or "tired" they are.[/quote]

Yes, this is so true. The touch of a man who is great in bed helps you to sleep better.[/quote]

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