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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here. I was on the verge of breaking. The affair has helped. There's mutual support and understanding as well as physical and emotional release. I have some very strong friendships, exceptionally cool kids who enjoy doing many things I love (like camping), and a job that lets me serve others in a tabgible way and make a difference. I am much more in touch with my gratitude since I have had this.

And over time I've gotten less angry with my husband for taking away so much of what I valued and he promised. I have much of what I need and that has to be enough. [/quote]

But, you are a total fraud and a terrible example to your children. [/quote]

When your children find out, and lose respect for you for the rest of your life, you will be singing a different tune.[/quote]

When is the time to tell the kids?  My ex wife had an affair and we divorced a few years ago. Now post divorce I’ve moved on kids are pretty happy generally. I realized my ex wife really was not a good match.

At some point am I supposed to tell my kids?  I mean the way the whole affair rolled out was just terrible. She was going to move in with him. He ditched her. Then she went through this crazy phase.

Now after several years I am supposed to tell the kids?  I’ve thought about it. But what are benefits?[/quote]

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