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Reply to "Wife wants to move from city to small hometown, I don't"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP update. Last night I talked to my wife and suggested the second home as a compromise, and then we can see how we like it. She didn't exactly jump up and down at the idea. At least I'm trying. I saw my therapist today who suggested we need to talk about it more and find out what's really keeping her unhappy, because happiness can't be found outside the mind. He said to not do *anything* for 6 months.[/quote] Well yeah of course. The issue is not where you live. In fact, you could move back next week and for a short while that euphoria would help your wife feel better. But it would soon wear off, and she would just be unhappy again. The issue isn’t location and your wife isn’t speciall. Lots of women with young children especially those who stay home all day with them struggle for years. It just isn’t always as fun and glamorous as advertised.[/quote]
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