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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is a sign of respect to offer your best to your guests, especially your elders.  I am having a hard time with all of these narcissistic posts.  Who are you people that you won't offer your bed to your parents?  Sad, very sad.[/quote]

+1 there’s a lot of people on this thread who weren’t raised to value others...[/quote]

If someone is booting another person out of their own bedroom so that they can have the comfortable bed....who exactly is that person valuing? [/quote]

oP isn’t being booted out of her bed.  She is on vacation with her spouse.  Something that is possible because her in-laws are staying at her house and watching her kids for free.  Not letting them have the room that they find more comfortable shows that she does not value them.[/quote]

Providing a nice guest room for her parents does, in fact, show that she cares about their comfort.  If something about the room is not pleasing to her parents, they need to communicate what they dislike about it so that Op can fix it.  I can totally see why Op and her dh are not happy with idea of someone else staying in their bedroom.  Some people value their privacy and an intrusion like that would be very uncomfortable to them.

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Op already said her ILs don’t find the bedroom comfortable enough.  If OP values her privacy over their comfort then she doesn’t have the appropriate value system in place.[/quote]

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