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I think this is a bit simplistic. Okay sex is okay and many people are fine with that.  I had numerous rockstar sex sessions with women that I would not want to be married to. Sex amazing-the rest of them not so much.  So when I found someone that was "okay" sex but really good wife material that I really loved, I was fine with okay sex + all the other benefits.  I don' think that if you are having okay sex with someone you should expect that it will become meh and then no sex.  I would take okay sex for the rest of my life with a good wife over amazing sex with someone that would be a bad wife.  I don't think there is necessarily a cause effect of okay sex>no sex at all, at least there shouldn't be.[/quote]

You make a lot of sense and I respect your choices.  I've also had OK sex with a woman I married.  No sex, anger, bitterness and other issues led to divorce and me having full custody of my children.  Since that time, I've chosen the amazing sex with no marriage.  I'm with a woman who is a great lover.  I may have married her in the past so I'm not saying she isn't marriage materiel.  Just that, marriage does nothing for me and no woman is going to coerce me into marriage for fear of losing her and I've been clear on that from the beginning.  She can have me as long as she wants and the relationship is good for us both.  Should we decide to part, it will not be through divorce.  I never want to get divorced again and not getting married is the way to make sure that never happens.  Try cutting a man off from sex when you aren't married and it's an entirely different story.  My sex life will not be held hostage and it works the same for her.  Should anything happen to me where I lost interest or was not able to perform or satisfy her, I don't expect her to stick around much longer.[/quote]

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