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She's not waiting for him to initiate. Sometimes you'll have a situation where all of the other elements of sexual desire are in place but the DW just needs the spark of seeing how much DH needs her to get her revved up. Strong initiations work in this situation. But that's not at all the kind of relationship that OP is describing. Strong initiations where DW is just flat not interested will only exacerbate the problem. She'll feel used and pressured. And, if she submits to the pressure and he goes ahead and has sex with her, she'll feel violated -- all of which will make her even less interested in sex in the future. [/quote]

You don't know that. And neither does he...since he's too much of a coward to talk with her about it. [/quote]

He has talked with her about it multiple times. Per OP: "Have talked about it on multiple times (sex/intimacy, not about not caring) and she does the usual break down and cry, I'm not a good wife response with no change at all.[/quote]

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