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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP who can't come in the current wife's house. If the worst issue you encounter with your ex-husband's wife is that she states her preferences regarding whether you enter her house or not, you should be grateful. If she's good to your daughter, good to your ex, that's a win. It sounds like it's hard for you to let go of control, and you are overreacting, and then projecting it as some huge problem that hurts your daughter. It's you making it an issue because you are the one hurt that you can't control things. [/quote]

Saying that a little girls mom isn't allowed in your house in front of her (when she also lives in that house with her father) is pretty hurtful.[/quote]

The poster didn't go into detail, so for all we know, the child overheard what was meant to be a private conversation. If my child told me that they'd heard their stepmother say she doesn't want me in her house, I'd have calmly said she sounds like someone who needs a lot of privacy and personal space, and everyone has a right to that, if that's their preference. I wouldn't be complaining on a forum about it years later. But then, I'm not a control freak.[/quote]

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