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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]You can spin it in whatever place you live, but men do care about a woman’s education. I know several men who would not date a woman unless she was educated. Looks do matter to everyone, but you can’t a woman with good looks and educated is desirable. You can only use looks to a certain extent. Most men even prefer someone smart and average instead of dumb and hot. It’s really deplorable a father would teach his daughters that their looks and what they can do for men is the only reason for their being. [/quote]

Intelligent enough, educated enough women are a dime a dozen in this area. A graduate degree doesn't make a woman good relationship material. It doesn't hurt, but that goes on her resume for job interviews.[/quote]

YES, but I don't women need to be all that attractive either. Just attractive enough. Tons of overweight women in this area are married and in good relationships. With your theory, shouldn't they be divorced. Weight gain may be a deal breaker for you, but obviously it's not for many other men. [/quote]

Just because a man might not divorce his now overweight (but thin while dating) wife does not mean her weight gain isn’t a dealbreaker. My wife gained 40+ Pounds and I have zero attraction to her, but divorce is such a hassle! Instead, My attention has shifted to some other lady friends who, guess what, are still thin and attractive. My wife’s education is irrelevant to this equation, but just FYI she’s got her masters. [/quote]

You do realize not everyone is you, right?  I feel so sorry for your wife. She married a man who took vows to love her, and he can't see past her middle aged weight gain.  [/quote]

I do love her. I'm just not attracted to her. You should feel sorry for me because I've never been attracted to overweight women, never dated one.
You do realize that not everyone has "middle aged weight gain" only those who eat alot and don't care about remaining attractive for their partner.[/quote]

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