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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Look, [b]she's bored with having sex with you.[/b] She [b]still loves you, but after the 2,000th time of having sex with you, it's a chore, not a pleasure. It's not your fault, [/b]it's nothing personal. Men always trumpet about how they need variety, blah blah blah, but [b]in fact science has shown that monogamy is more difficult for women,[/b] because we have reactive sexual response--something needs to trigger us to want to have sex, rather than just an innate desire (which men have thanks to testosterone). As her husband, you are like her favorite pair of sweatpants--comfortable, familiar, beloved, but not sexy or exciting.[/quote]

You are probably right she is bored. Stability bores women, in fact everything they typically say they want in a man is a lie in sexual terms. The most arousing traits in men in study after study are all dominate, aggressive and self-centered traits. Science has not shown "monogamy is more difficult for women", not even close, it has shown women use sex to win approval or secure what they want and as validation. Feeling a man wont leave and is 100% faithful (ironically a trait among the least sexually attractive according to women) is boring, no need for desire. "we have reactive sexual response--something needs to trigger us to want to have sex" yes like wanting to secure attention, loyalty, validation or.................. another woman may take your man. Women want what they think other women want because ultimately they hate each other. More like petulant children than logical adults.[/quote]

Not it at all. Women are about stability, and family...less about the man. Having to keep the man child happy is part of that deal. Many know they have to walk the walk to get what they want. [b]Once women get older they tire of having to keep the child satisfied, and pretending becomes harder.[/b] It's not the man they fear will leave. It's the instability and life style that can be negatively affected. [/quote]

No they hit menopause and become biologically irrelevant. They no longer serve a biological purpose, your self life expired. Hormonally sex with you is like putting racing stripes on a Yugo. Sure it might be fun but whats the point, your uterus is like a dried up bota bag with lifeless dead prunes for ovaries. From natures view point you are a waste of sperm. You should be glad he is the adult and compassionate enough to keep a relic like you, there is no real up side to making sure you have stability and sustain your life style. 
Have a good evening. [/quote]

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