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Reply to "What's the most selfish thing your spouse has done?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Those of you with resentment toward your husbands for not staying with you, by the hospital bed, after childbirth -- do you do the same for him when he is hospitalized? Or is he expected to "be a man" and deal with it?[/quote] Jesus people... this is why there are issues with PPD. A woman who gives birth just went through a HUGE hormonal/personal/physical/etc change and ESPECIALLY with the first child--- how is it out of the ordinary to expect that the father would just stay with you for the first night? And yes, if my DH was in the hospital I would absolutely do everything I could to support him.[/quote] NP. Don't get it either. It is the father's child. His wife just delivered a baby, and may have even had a routine, but still serious, medical procedure. And even if YOU didn't need your husband's help, someone else still may want/need their husband around. How hard is it to understand? [/quote]
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