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[quote=Anonymous]My husband went home at 8 or 9pm each night I was in the hospital with our kids. He came back at 9am with food. I am sure he would have loved to stay and gaze lovingly at our babies, but I needed him rested and functional to help me when we got home. He also took a nap at some point in my 30+ hr labor because the doula recommended it. I don’t think these things are selfish at all. Selfish things are the tiny actions that pile up over time. Like staying up late binge watching TV and then sleeping past his alarm and not helping get the kids ready in the morning. Like not putting his foot down about his parents serving food our kids can’t or won’t eat at inconvenient times when we visit and not being a better advocate for or children’s needs so they aren’t overtired and hungry. Selfish is coming home from work whenever he damn well pleases and never acknowledging that I never have the chance to work late because I pick up the kids. [/quote]
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