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Know what you want.  You’ve been in a relationship before—what can you live with and what can’t you?  And then don’t play games.  On a date, I will talk about my love of cooking and name a few dishes I’ve made that week.  That leads to do you enjoy cooking.  He will then say the kitchen is for show, I eat out most nights, I make a mean bowl of cereal, etc.  For the relationship part, I’m direct—what are you looking for?  I don’t want to waste my time or their time if they’re trying to date as many women as possible.  I’ll ask about their pet peeves—what annoys them?  That usually leads to a conversation about feelings of tardiness, cleanliness, workaholism, etc.  Ask what they like to do in their non work time— you will hopefully find some common interests.  I’ve found that most guys ask me about my divorce first. So then I’ll ask them about theirs, their relationship with the kids and the ex.  That usually starts the financial conversation.  You have to talk about something on a date, might as well find out if this person is a good fit for you.

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A date like you would be a boner killer[/quote]

What do you talk about on your dates?[/quote]

I agree, and I am a lady. [/quote]

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