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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No.  Never.  I have many gay friends, voted for gay marriage and consider myself open-minded, but I want my man to be heterosexual.[/quote]

You have many gay friends whose lifestyle you agree with and who if they are really your friends you trust. So why can't you trust a bisexual man and stop thinking negative things about him enough to date or sleep with him?[/quote]

Because their protests were never about trust; it's about insecurity and fragile egos.[/quote]

So you are generalizing all bisexual men to be insecure with fragile egos? If you know gay friends who aren't that way why do you think other bi men are?[/quote]

No. I'm generalizing about the straight females in this thread who are making all sorts of false claims that bi men are "more likely to cheat," "more likely to give me an STD," etc etc etc.

Those are convenient excuses that attempts to mask these straight women's insecurity. They are afraid that they can never make a bisexual man truly happy. Perhaps if they just listened to what bisexual people are actually saying, rather than jumping to completely uninformed conclusions in order to soothe their fragile egos....

-Straight Man Who Has Dated Multiple Bi Women[/quote]
We don't care! What are you not getting about this? We find you disgusting.[/quote]

And no amount of arm twisting or angry posts is going to change that.  DEAL WITH IT. [/quote]

And I'm actually OK with that. But just be honest and say "Male bisexuality is a turn off for me and I don't want that from a partner. It's not my preference." That's all you need to say and 99.5% of people will respect that decision. 
Similarly, a gay man or gay woman can say "I'm not attracted to bisexuals, it's just not my preference for a relationship partner" and it's not bigoted. That's cool.

Instead, we have lots of straight'ish women in here making all sorts of bigoted claims about how "male bisexuality is different from female bisexuality," "bisexuals can't be monogamous," and "bisexuals will give you STDs." 
All of which can be true of straight men and women. But for some reason, you feel compelled to put down bisexuals in order to feel empowered. Such words come from a place of insecurity.

So just stop with the bigotry. No one is telling you that you must be attracted to bisexual men. But we are telling you that you need to stop with the bigotry. Just own your preferences like an adult without needing to put others down to feel superior. Those are school yard antics.

-Straight Man Who Has Dated Multiple Bi Women[/quote]

Everyone already said that, what are you going on about?  Women couldn't possibly be more honest with it[/quote]

Um, no. Are we reading completely different threads? These are completely bigoted responses:

[quote=Anonymous]Anyone else who flip flops seems to have too much dramatic baggage that I want nothing to do with[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Plus, they are usually messed up in the head and overly sexual. [/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]plus, I think pursuing a bi-sexual lifestyle means the person is way too focused on sexuality and sex, and I prefer people who are intelligent, interesting and focused on things other than themselves.
also, don't bisexuals have a disproportionate amount of sexual diseases?  [/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]STDs, for one.  [/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Eww. STD, HIV are gross. 
In addition, I have zero interest in man-bun wearing guys with attitude.  
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[quote=Anonymous]I have also had bisexual male friends. Bisexual men are almost uniformly basket cases with severe self loathing. This makes them take terrible sexual risks, lead dishonest lives, and have a high rate of substance abuse. It is just not worth it, not to mention the incredibly high HIV and other STD risk.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]No way. Males who have same sex partners are at much higher risk in a whole range of categories, including health, crime... [/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Why is it so hard for homosexuals and bisexuals to accept that people are disgusted by your sex acts? I believe in equal rights, but you don't have the right to tell me what I should want to participate in. Most people find the idea of two men having sex to be repugnant. Deal with it.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]No, I would not date a bisexual man.  To  me that is gay ( totally fine, of course)  but, just admit it to yourself.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]No. Never. 
One of the STIs they tend to get more of is HIV...[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Ew, no.  Grosses me out and, he's twice as likely to cheat.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Nope because I'd never know if he had dormant HIV.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]Ever been to seattle? All the women in poly relatioships are bisexual and easy. It is becoming so popular that in that liberal state the number of couples looking for unicorns is all you would find.[/quote]

[quote=Anonymous]
I won't sleep with intravenous drug users. Or masochists. Or sadists. Also hang ups?

I was born this way.  [/quote]

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
Is it possible for you to be bi and monogamous at the same time? [/quote]

Yes.  But I'm not a man. [/quote]

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