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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait op here. I'm sorry, you all feel sorry for me because I think you should stop being so aggressive and judgement in telling children off in public spaces when a parent is already monitoring them? You are all having an imaginary disagreement. I said I don't let my son spit on anyone and we leave. I said I make him take turns and wait. I said I faculae his interactions. I don't let him grab toys and I literally never said I did. I never said he hits or is aggressive and he is not. what exactly do you think I am letting him do or am advocating that he should be permitted to do? If I came in here and said my kid with autism should be allowed to hit or what have you, okay, that's one argument.

I'm specifically asking you to stop yelling at my child when I'm standing there and stop being outraged at him and me when he does something you deem unacceptable.[/quote]

OP, it's pretty rare in general that parents yell at other people's kids. It sounds like it happens all the time to you, and so maybe you should realize that it's much more likely to be a problem with you rather than a problem with all of them.[/quote]

I have *never* seen a parent yell at another kid, and most parents I've observed don't even say anything to other kids if the other parent is stepping up.  Either you hang out at places with incredibly aggressive parents, or something doesn't add up.  Either they aren't really yelling, or you aren't stepping in as quickly as you say you are, or your kid's behavior is more upsetting than you think.  [/quote]

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