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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If we don't have sex for a while (say, a week) he gets grumpy and pouty and sullen. I am not turned on by grumpy and pouty and sullen..so I don't want to have sex with him at that point. The situation deteriorates quickly.

(I know I could just have sex with him and he'd snap out of it, but then I get bitter about the fact I have to have sex with him to maintain his mood. Don't I offer anything else?)

This all recently came to light in a huge fight and we are working on it. [/quote]

So THIS is your primary problem in marriage?
Fantastic!! Then I have some great news: your #1 problem can be easily solved. There's even an "app" for it. Pull out your phone, open the Calendar, and create a new event called Sex, make it recurring every 6 days.

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She could even make it every three days to have some wiggle room in case she didn't want to do it on a particular day.

More seriously, I've gotten the "if you weren't grumpy about sex maybe I'd want to have sex with you" comment. But the fact is that I went a good long time without being grumpy about sex where sex wasn't happening. That's what gave me the bad attitude in the first place. So, while the bad attitude doesn't help, I know from experience it's not the reason we're not having sex. It's just her latest excuse. Maybe it's easier than saying, "I don't know why, but I just don't feel like having sex anymore" or "we've been together too long for me to feel attracted to you" or whatever the real reason is.  [/quote]

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