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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wait - I know you want what's best for your boys but why do you have 50-50 custody with an ALCOHOLIC??  That doesn't seem like it's very good for your boys, especially not your younger one.[/quote]

I am sure OP has thought of that.  Unfortunately the courts decide this, not OP, and there is precious little she can do about it without violating her court orders, I am sure.

OP, I really think you should talk to a counselor to figure out how to frame this successfully, but don't let the aggressive haters on this thread make you question too much.  You are obviously a very thoughtful person who cares a LOT about her kids and I think you will be fine to get married.

If I have one concern about your plan I think you sound like you might intend to be the only parent and not really let fiancé have much of a role.  Make sure he is 100% on board with everything that comes along with kids -- you all need to be a family if he moves in at this stage.  If he's not ready for that, that would make me pause.  It isn't a replacement for the family your kids already have, but it still needs to be a family environment.[/quote]

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