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[quote=Anonymous]From a WASP who grew up in DC (Chevy Chase, actually)

If we're being honest: No, they don't.  The vast majority do not.   My brother, for example, who is what you've described, flat out told me when I tried to set him up with a friend who is light-skinned Latina, that unless a woman is lily-white and fellow WASP, he just doesn't feel attracted.

And, if I'm honest, that is my dating history as well- I've only ever dated fellow WASPs.

I think it's just a cultural thing of what we are raised to be attracted to?  Our parents put a lot of emphasis on heritage- i.e. your ancestor did this, X person is "new money", etc- so that becomes sunk into your ideas of what you like about a person, the shared background and understandings, etc.

BUT I will say there are certain WASPs who may not fit in very well who would probably be open to dating women of other races.  Find one who was a bit of a misfit in high school/middle school, and they might very well not be as concerned with the social norms and just happy to have a beautiful woman with similar interests.

If we are talking genuine WASP, old money, etc- that's kind of the best you could hope for.

If you are interested in someone who is not a WASP, but similarly enthused by our lifestyle, I would think you would find plenty of Italian, Jewish, etc men who would be happy to date you and would look great in a pink bow tie.

I wish you luck, and hope my honesty didn't come across as rude.  I know if I was in your position I would want straight talk and the real story [/quote]

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