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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I still wanna know how these "you can't date anyone for X years, I get to approve your new love interests" clauses even get into the divorce agreement. Why would anyone agree to that?[/quote]
You misunderstand.  No one is interested in who the exes date.  The divorce agreement only dictates what they are allowed to do around their children.  They can all go crazy on the days they don't have the kids - which, let's admit it, is probably ample time if they are male since moms typically get more custody time.  If I divorce, I wouldn't get two shits who my ex-h dates. But I will do all I can to control what happens around my children. [/quote]

+1.  I'm not jealous of new wife, I feel sorry for her. She has no idea what she is getting into, ex admitted to me he is keeping her in the dark about significant matters.  Dated my ex for 1 yr exactly when they got engaged.   There are many red flags waving but she is ignoring them in favor of marrying quickly and trying to have one last chance for a baby at age 43.

I don't want my monkeys pulled into another circus.  Ex has made his bed, but we don't all have to lie in it.[/quote]

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