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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are blaming your DH's family, when your DH is the one who ultimately decided to not ask his family to reimburse him for his education. Who pays for a child's higher education is a cultural difference between you and your DH and his family and you aren't willing to accept this difference or work through it. Although for some reason, you were very willing to date and marry outside of your culture. You're getting to play the victim/martyr, which is the powerful role here. You get to call all the shots and feel sorry for your poor, poor self. Not so easy to let that go and choose happiness for your family instead. [/quote] Plus the DH parents circumstances seem to be different at the points each was in college. I think OP regrets marrying outside her culture. [/quote]
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