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Reply to "Husband isn't good provider and I secretly hate him for it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's your hhi? Do you have a downpayment saved up?[/quote] +1. Now 9 pages in and still no answer regarding HHI. [/quote] Seriously. DC is expensive, but it's not insane. Two professional earners (OP even said she makes more than her dh) should be able to buy some kind of house in the area within a reasonable commute to downtown. [/quote] I totally agree. When they met with that financial planner after their DC#1 was born, they should have outlined their long term goals - certainly retirement should be/is one but it sounds like OP and her DH chose to fund their kids' college to the detriment of home ownership. I don't understand how that it her DH's fault. A decent financial planner would have gotten them on the path of homeownership rather than continuing to throw money away in rent. It makes no financial sense and you don't need a financial planner to tell you that. If either one of them is a fed, they can borrow from their TSP for the down payment.[/quote]
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