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[quote=Anonymous][quote]What's very helpful is to have grown up in a home with loving and monogamous parents and seeing the positive effect it has on children. When you grow up in that environment you aspire for the same and, IMO, work hard to achieve the same goal.[/quote] You'd be surprised. My DH comes from this kind of family. He was the sibling "who got into trouble as a teen" ... also the smartest and most ambitious. My DH ultimately went into finance and killed it, and decided that all that money entitled him to stop living by anyone's rules except his own. The unfortunate part of this is that it was true. He has so many people under him now, he's too far gone for anyone to criticize. His parents seem to be more or less afraid of him, and he doesn't take their money so they don't hold anything over him anymore, especially since DH decided he's an atheist. He's beholden to no one. Not even me or the kids. He really doesn't care about anyone but himself. You can't always predict that children will want to emulate their parents, even if they were a good example. Money in large amounts changes people, and in the end we have free will. As long as my DH has his money and doesn't break the law, no one's going to tell him anything he doesn't want to hear.[/quote]
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