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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Open up to him. Tell him exactly what you feel and why you keep doing this.

30K debt is not a big deal in the grand scheme of things(you could make that in a year or two working night jobs as a caregiver). The betrayal is.

You have to figure out how to help him get over your betrayal.[/quote]
OP here. Yes, exactly. I also have major generalized anxiety disorder, so I'm having trouble putting into perspective how bad this is. I always go to the catastrophic scenario. The anxiety is what makes it so hard for me to share anything negative with him, much less this.[/quote]

OP, it may be worse in your mind than actually telling him.  He already knows about the first amount and may even suspect that the amount is higher.  You'll feel better about everything once you tell him and especially if you have a plan of paying it off.

Do you feel comfortable telling us how you accumulated the debt? Only wondering because if it's due to something like a shopping addiction you may need additional support and people may be able to chime in with good recommendations.[/quote]

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