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[quote=Anonymous]My DH suffers from depression/anxiety, avoids conflict and has 'hiding' behaviors much like you, OP. Except, we don't earn $200K between us and he was unemployed for over a year and is now making $11/hr. We nearly divorced because of behaviors you've described, including hiding debt. My advice is for you to immediately contact a counselor to help you work through your issues and use those counseling sessions to come clean about EVERYTHING (I find it hard to believe the $30K debt is the only thing he doesn't know about) and to demonstrate to him you recognize the seriousness of what you've done. The debt isn't the problem. It's the betrayal of trust, especially since he had to discover the $15K and you've haven't disclosed the additional $15K. This is a lie of omission.[/quote]
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