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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Open up to him. Tell him exactly what you feel and why you keep doing this. 30K debt is not a big deal in the grand scheme of things(you could make that in a year or two working night jobs as a caregiver). The betrayal is. You have to figure out how to help him get over your betrayal.[/quote] OP here. Yes, exactly. I also have major generalized anxiety disorder, so I'm having trouble putting into perspective how bad this is. I always go to the catastrophic scenario. The anxiety is what makes it so hard for me to share anything negative with him, much less this.[/quote] Have you discussed this, the anxiety, hiding behaviors and/or shame with a therapist? This sounds like an area that would really improve with some focus and work.[/quote] I have not, but clearly I need to. My whole life is about avoiding conflict.[/quote]
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