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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We don't schedule it, but I track it. OK, yes, I am a nerd. And I made sure we get it a few times a week, most weeks. There are weeks (travel, vacations, my period) when we have it once. Very rarely we have it not at all in a week. I checked my spreadsheet, and there were three weeks in 2016 that we didn't have sex at all. Two of them involved 6-7 days of travel for him, the third week ... I don't remember why we didn't have sex that week (no notes in my spreadsheet) but we had it 3 times the week before and 3 the week after. So, it seems reasonable. Our average is above 2 but below 3 times a week.

You may think I'm a dork, but I find that this is the way I can schedule and make sure we get enough sex to remain happy, and I don't feel pressured for sex (because I don't get asked for sex if I'm handing it out before he gets anxious).

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This has to be the weirdest thing I've read in a long time.  You have a spreadsheet of when you spread your legs - good god gross.  Are you this anal about everything else in your life?  Have you been doing this your whole marriage and does your husband know about your chart?  Totally weird sorry.  You are probably the same type of person who kept a poop chart for their kids - you should relax and enjoy life.[/quote]

I'm a hot mess, thanks.[/quote]

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