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[quote=Anonymous]Looks like no one is taking your side, OP. What does that tell you? You have a right to be upset, yes. Just not with your mom. A death is outside of anyone's control. It's the responsibility of you and your husband to find more local childcare backup if you both have to work extra hours. You're very dismissive of your mom. She was good enough to travel to your home, to bring her work along and work while caring for your kids. You must trust her with them. It sounds like the woman who died is someone she knew for many years, and maybe she was fond of her. Or maybe she's fond of her boyfriend and wants to support him through his loss. All you have is a heavy work schedule. My mom would never and never has come to help out. Maybe you should be grateful, instead of sulking. And your solution fell through, so now it's your husband's turn to find childcare. Or does that all fall on you? Maybe he can take responsibility for this, and then he can also get to have an equal say in where you spend Christmas this year. [/quote]
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