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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My daughter has a few girls in her group that get jealous and stir up trouble from time to time (exclude various girls etc.) - it is sort of typical even among friends I'm afraid.    If a group comes to our house for a party or any other reason and I see bad behavior, I'll call the them out out right away - pull them aside and tell them we do not act that way here and if I see it again I will call their parents to pick them up.    I had to do this once - never had to call the parents, but pulled a girl aside (the main one).   It has never happened again - with any of the girls.   I'm not a super strict parent by any means, but I have no problem being the parent that won't take any crap.  [/quote]

Bingo!  This is what I was going to recommend.  Uninviting is not the message you want to teach your daughter. It's just poor manners.  Be prepared to watch this girl like a hawk.  At the first unkind tone -- chime in with "we talk kindly in my house."  Don't take any crap.  I do not get the impression that your daughter is dreading this girls attendance -- but that you are.  You'll be fine.  A PP is likely correct, there will almost certainly be not opportunity for this kind of "mean" behavior at the party.  Get through the party and then you'll never see her again.  You also won't have taught your daughter poor manners (uninviting someone when you've decided you don't like them after all).

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