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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Put yourself on the line and ask people out. Have girl dates. You might get rejected (I have not been rejected yet. Not once).  But you might not. They might not reciprocate, but they might. Actually, one of my best friends never reciprocates. I think I had about 10 - 12 girl dates over the past 4-5 months. Had fun on every single one.[/quote]

Agree with this. You are unlikely to make friends sitting at home or work. You need to get out of your comfort zone and reach out to people. You can meet potential friends anywhere, if you keep your mind open to that.

If you meet people who already have many friends and full social lives they may have little time or incentive to reach out to you. You need to make the effort to connect with them, some will be happy to befriend you while others might still not be interested. Repeat this with new people you see as potential friends, repeat with the people who have responded positively and eventually you will have friends. You might be rejected but that doesn't happen as often as you may fear and it won't hurt much if you have the right frame of mind (know that she may not be interested) and have no expectations at the start. If that happens brush it off and keep trying. I also have a good friend who rarely initiates a meet up but I enjoy her company and know she enjoys mine and I want to keep the friendship so I'm willing to initiate. [/quote]

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