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Okay then, I'd say ask her if she wants to meet up for lunch or coffee while the kids are at school. Progress to dinner and help figure out creative ways to find babysitters (you could pay for the babysitter or find a cousin who'll sit for her for free for a favor - whatever floats your boat) - just show her you're interested in her and understand that her kids come first & you're willing to work with that. Move on to attending the kid's games or having a 'family' picnic in the park.

Bottom line - talk to her face-to-face, see what she's looking for in life, explain where you're going, see if you're still a match, and make it clear you're not just looking for her ass but care about her kids as well.[/quote]
I like this advice, too, with the exception of the kids' games and family picnic...I would save anything to do with the kids until MUCH, MUCH later. Also, not that you need to be nosey about it, but I would want to know what led to her divorce. Is she planning on working now? Does she have a way to earn a living? Are you well-off, and that's why she's reaching out? Did you see any red flags before that you have conveniently forgotten?[/quote]

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