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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OMG. Are you really this much of an enabling loser? Are your kids gun-toting drug dealers too so you need a reason to excuse, justify and pretend not a problem? No wonder our city is going to shit.v[/quote]

Do you overreact in other parts of your life?  Do you always read into situations?  Do you have a habit of making relationship-ruining decisions without the facts?  This is what we know:

1.  OP suspects her nieces/nephews deal drugs
2.  They own guns

What we don't know:
1.  Are they taking drugs and what kind?
2.  Are the drugs legal or not legal?
3.  If they use drugs, what, if any, negative behaviors does their drug use cause?
4.  If they use drugs and have negative behaviors, will those behaviors be present at OP's house?
5.  If they deal drugs, what kind, how much and how often/
6.  if they deal drugs, how likely is it clients will follow them to OP's house?
7.  If they deal drug, how likely is their supplier/angry rival will show up at OP's house?
8.  If they travel with their guns, would they not leave them in the car if asked?

Clearly, you live in a bubble and work really hard to preserve it.  You are oblivious to how many people around you use drugs/alcohol or have substance abuse issues. The vast majority of users are no danger to anyone but themselves.  I'm not condoning illegal drug use or dealers (full disclosure, I smoked some pot in college)  but I am able to determine threats and develop a measured and balanced response.  No where in OP's post did she describe behaviors that are concerning. Like you, she is a reactionary.  Or, as I'm starting to suspect, OP is a troll since she's not been back to provide additional information.  If so, she did a good job because she sure has gotten people like you riled up.[/quote]

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