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[quote=Anonymous]Keep you plans and be calm and nice. Boundaries are a problem here - and they are best put in place calmly and firmly. Unfortunately, your boundary problem is with your DH mainly. "Honey, I am so sorry I yelled at you. I'm frustrated that I already made plans and you suggested changing them at the last minute. I should not have yelled at you. Having said that, let's keep our plans. We can keep our Chirstmas plans with your family and do something different next year. Kthanks." And hold firm. Everyone will learn quickly that you now mean business. And always stay calm through new boundaries. They'll love the new calm cool you that they can absolutely count on!!! BTDT[/quote]
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