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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is there something in your marriage that may be causing you to feel this way?  I felt that way for a while, but eventually realized that it was because I did not feel loved, desired, or appreciated by DH, and so I wanted someone else to fill in and provide me with that.  I never acted on the desire, but once I knew what was causing it, I was able to talk to DH about how I felt and at least make things a bit better.[/quote]

The issue is not a major problem: DH is low energy.  He doesn't plan things or take much initiative.  He doesn't have many friends or a close relationship with family.  He is generally game if I suggest things but I always have to suggest.  He has made me feel  more desired since I recently improved my appearance--lost some baby weight.[/quote]

Fascinating.  Its always some emotional reason for women?  [b]Men cheat when the sex dries up[/b], it's not complicated.  This must be why women in here preach that affairs have nothing to do with sex life because for them it doesnt.[/quote]

Honestly, I'm so tired of the blame the victim mentality when it comes to cheating.  Plenty of men cheat even when they have a completely willing partner; I know mine did.  Men (and women) cheat when they prefer to indulge in fantasy rather than deal with their own real lives and doing what it takes to make real change in their lives.  Cheaters prefer to construct facades rather than live authentically.

It's as simple as that.

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