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[quote=Anonymous]OP other than the affair, what would make you not want to be married to him?

When it comes to divorce, a lot of women here have mentioned other breaking points like domestic violence, major addiction, abuse of the children. I even remember someone once saying her husband shit the bed before leaving for work just to make her have to clean it up. Is he a future financial risk? Does he gamble?

I'm very concerned about your financial situation and handing it all over to the OW. Think of the thing she would like you to do the most in the world. Filing for divorce is probably it. If you have a comfortable income married and are basically being paid to be able to raise your dd the rest of the way, unless you really want to start over and find someone else, I'm not sure the financial hit you will take is worth drastic action.

Nearly everyone is going to tell you your marriage is over - and that may be true, in the sense that you knew it - but no one else has to deal with being you afterwords or help you pay your rent.

Just paying attention to the obvious signs that your DH seems very comfortable in this arrangement and is in no hurry to change it. I just don't want you to shoot yourself in the foot just because your husband can't keep his dick in his pants. Why should you be the one to suffer for that?

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