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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]dw's or dh's, can you give examples of verbal/emotional abuse by your so?  AND, can the dcum "stop caring" method be effective in such circumstances?[/quote]

How about these? - No, the "stop caring" method wouldn't work for me here.

In an argument, DH showers with me insults and accusations and refuses to let me explain or defend myself in any way. He is always right. I am always wrong. This alone feels plenty abusive to me.

On top of it, he says that if I want to be heard, I need to yell over him because that's how they do it in America. So I interrupted him and he told me to "shut the fuck up." In response, I said that I wouldn't let him to me that way and refused to listen until he calmed down. So he forced me on the ground and continued to yell at me to force me to listen. I still refused let him treat me this way, he got angrier and more physical, saying that I was provoking him. He wrestled well in HS and knows how to force a person down without injuring them. Still, angry strength is threatening enough for me, who hasn't fought anyone since kid fights with sister. I kicked him away, unintentionally hit him in a weak spot in the leg, and he complained to me on and off for a month that I used "excessive force" and and that he wasn't really hurting me. What an asshole.

[quote=Anonymous]If you can't tell your friends and family about it, it's abusive. [/quote]

Absolutely.

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For those who may be wondering why stay: DD loves her dad, her dog and her neighborhood. It breaks my heart to take her away from her home where all is calm and decent most of the time.[/quote]

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