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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry.

Be specific about their lives, what will change, what will not change. Do not have Dad leave right away (or you), but have a plan for when this will all happen. Answer their questions. Be prepared to address: here are both of you living,, where are they living, what will their schedule look like, who will take them to school, drop them off, can they still have sleepovers, what about christmas, what about pets, everything.

They will also want to know why. and they will want, even if they can't articulate this, want to know whey your love for them wasn't enough to stay together. BE prepared if they ask you if either of you is going to marry someone else. and then, be prepared for therapy with them.

also, if you think your DH is still in a relationship with the other woman, I would tell her husband if there's any chance that you might ever want to reconcile. His speech, while horrible to you, reflects 'affair fog' thinking and is unnecessarily cruel because he's trying to avoid guilt. [/quote]

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