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[quote=Anonymous]I have a physical disability. My DH has schizophrenia. This thread is NOT ableist; we recognize that our illnesses require extra work from our partner and would never begrudge the other running out of steam. OP, the biggest thing that jumps out to me is him going off his meds. That's very common and also very destructive. I want to encourage you to have a separation at this point. You need to remember what life feels like when you aren't shouldering someone else's illness. And if he wants to get better and make your family work, he has to commit to doing what the doctors tell him to do, he can't make changes on his own. That's something he has to prove to you before you can think about him living in the family home again. It is too destructive otherwise.[/quote]
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