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[quote=Anonymous]Big hug, OP!

My mother loves me dearly and has taken good care of me many times, but she does have profound psychological issues that make her hurt people when they're down, and the problem is these moments are not predictable.

She actually did kick me out of her house when I was broke and helpless with two young children. My BIL took me in, bless him. She verbally abused all of us, accusing us of the wildest things - like changing the temperature of her fridge to deliberately rot her vegetables (!).

Please, as much as you possibly can, keep a laser focus on your own future success. You're young and strong and unattached without any dependents. If financially/materially it makes sense to stay, stay as long as you can! I know that your coping mechanism will keep changing with her moods, I've been there. There is no pride here. You need to shut up and keep you head down and your future self will thank you for it.

If it gets too much, then of course, get out, hopefully to a more welcoming environment. But unless there's one out there for you right now, she's got you well and good, and there's nothing you can do except take it like the strong woman you are.

You can do it![/quote]

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