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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, what you are experiencing is a natural progression of a marital relationship. How old is your child? Why does divorce scare you?

I suggest individual counseling first. Maybe once you sort yourself out, you can suggest couples' counseling to your wife. But in my experience, once the relationship is done, it's done. You can choose to move on, to tolerate it with whining or without whining. I doubt you can fix this, you'll be wasting time and delaying the inevitable. Good luck to you whatever you decide.[/quote]

[b]I don't want it to end but won't live like this.[/b]  I can't be in a relationship where we are roommates [/quote]

You are contradicting yourself within one sentence. You won't live like this, but you don't want this to end. What is it that you don't want to end? Something that doesn't exist anymore?

I hate therapy and rarely say this, but I do believe you may benefit from talking to a professional. If nothing else, you may figure out what it is that you do want and figure out a way to get there. You need to come to grips with a simple fact: What is, is. Dwelling on the past and wishing it back is irrelevant and a waste of energy. You need to wrap your head around your present and carve out a possible future you can accept. Don't shy away from help, but be smart about it. It may take time, trial and error to fine a "stranger" you will click with in therapy.[/quote]

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