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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe it's because I was raised in a generation where you were considered an adult at 18, and parents pushed you to be independent. I don't understand the entitlement so many express here, that they expect their moms to keep helping them and doing for them as adults. You're adults now. Your mom spent decades raising you and doing for you. Now anything she might be able to or willing to do for you is optional, a bonus, gravy. That's what being an adult is about. You accept what people have to offer, and the fact that at some point, the teat runs dry. [/quote]
Yep once you're 18, out of the house and off the teat! Want your mother to listen? Too bad, you're off the teat! Want a mother to give you advice about about your two year old? Too bad, off the teat! Want some empathy when your father is dying? Too bad, you're over 18. Off the freaking teat! 
Don't you see how ridiculous this argument is? [/quote]
You are choosing to carry the weight of your father and the consequence is a lot of stress for you. That is your choice and I can see how you feel you owe him this because he is your father. He is not your mother's father, however, and she doesn't owe him anything nor does she owe you support in this ordeal you took on voluntarily.[/quote]

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