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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good to see the "divorce him" trolls come out swinging.  OP, misery loves company.  They want you in their misery camp.

It varies.  How long was the affair?  ONS can be forgiven.  Long affairs with confessions of love are harder to work through.[/quote]

Uh, NO, most people can not ever recover from cheating. It's the greatest betrayal

But thanks, stay-with-your-cheating-husband-and-be-miserable troll.

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Stay, don't stay, it affects me none.

I look at it this way:  Most men cheat at some point, between 50-75% do it (and women cheat often).  So you can jump from relationship to relationship if/when you discover your spouse screwed up.  Or you can look at the cheating, accept humans are flawed and see if the good parts of the marriage outweigh the bad.

Because if you have kids, you aren't choosing a good divorce vs. a bad marriage.  You are choosing the least worst options.  Considering OP's husband didn't actually cheat but clearly acted inappropriately, it would be worth looking at the totality of the marriage before tossing it for the next unknown.[/quote]

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