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OP here...It was never physical, but it got serious enough through many conversations that we admitted we'd choose each other over our spouses if we had to choose over again.  Easy statements to make in the fog of infatuation, I know.  She wrote a lengthy letter explaining how great a husband for her and father for her kids she thought I would be.   At one point, she asked directly if I would leave my wife over this.  I really had to think about it, but I said I couldn't without getting to know her much better, and there's no way we could ever do that under the circumstances.  So we've had this great heart/mind/soul connection, allegedly on many levels, but the days that I don't see her at work are easier on my psyche than the ones when she stops by for superficial conversations.   Yes, I am totally in control of my actions and I can be as pleasant as I need to be in our exchanges, but it feels much more like faking it 'til I make it.  [/quote]

Thanks for your honesty, OP. But I would be absolutely devastated if I ever heard my spouse talking about another this way.  A strictly sexual one-night stand would be easier to take than this love you developed with your co-worker.  Just how long did it take for you to fall in love with her?  Though you probably get an ego boost knowing this 9/10 sexy woman wanted you so badly that she'd want you to leave your wife without even a kiss between the two of you.[/quote]

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