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[quote=Anonymous]I've been on both sides of the issue- I was in a sexless relationship due to his lack of desire, and went through a period in my marriage where I had low desire. Here's my take:

Being with someone who has zero sexual interest in you, doesn't care at all about your sexual needs, and does nothing to try to meet your needs after pleading, crying, and expressing how important it is to you is awful. Awful. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. It's not just the lack of sex, it's that someone who supposedly loves you can't put forth any effort to meet your needs. That is a total mindfuck and destroys your self esteem. I see refusing to try to meet a partner's physical needs as no different than refusing to meet their emotional needs.

With my DH, my drive tanked because he was being pretty shitty to me and he stopped doing the things that attracted me to him in the first place. I worked with him to get us back to a place where I was interested in sex, because that's what I had wished my ex had done for me. It was never me having sex even if I didn't want to, it was working with him to bring back my attraction to him.

I think most husbands would prefer working with their wife to bring back her sex drive and have a fulfilling sex life, than have a wife who needs to be convinced to just lie back and think of England. [/quote]

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